Tuesday, March 16, 2010

The Do's and Dont's of a New Relationship

The Do's and Dont's of a new relationship are the first thing you learn when becoming a guide in the art of love. They are simple, but powerful when applied correctly. So read on, and be amazed as you take your first step in The Love Guide 101! Class is now in session.

Do: Slowly begin to learn the in's and out's of your companions personality. Learn what they like, what they don't like. Learn their habits. Especially the ones that you consider bad. That way when they do them, you won't be shocked or caught off guard.

Don't: Become overbearing or clingy. Being clingy and overly obsessed with the other person can kill a relationship faster than you can say, Brad-Pitts-nasty-beard!
So take it slow. The best way to know what to do is by following the other persons lead. If they text you four times a day, then it's ok for you to do the same.

Do: Become aware of the other person's flaws early in the relationship. Know what it is that you might have a problem with down the line, and decide if its an issue that you can live with, or if it will have to be dealt with later on in the future.

Don't: Point out his/or her flaw if you've only been going out for a week. It makes you seem like an ass, and it also makes you seem judgemental. You should only make a point of talking about it if it becomes a problem in the relationship. And if it is not dealt with, may cause a major rift between the two of you.

Do: Make them happy.....

Dont: ....at your own expense (ALL THE TIME!) . Now lets clarify. Sometimes in a relationship, to make the other person happy, you must sacrifice. Love is Sacrifice. And a relationship is Give and Take. Did you get that? Love is Sacrifice, but a relationship is give and take. Think about it.

For the men!
Do: NOT think about sex every time you're with your woman! If you're at the book store and she's asking you what you think about this new author, don't stare at those two beautiful things moving under her shirt! Its much more attractive for a man to answer the question with intelligence, than for him to be drooling when ever she moves.

For the women!
Don't: Think that he's not thinking about sex with you every 30 seconds. He's attracted to you! Its what we do! And trust me, you want that to continue. Because if it stops, than you may have a big problem.

Do (AND THIS IS A BIG ONE!): Decide whether the person you're with is worthy of your love. If they are, love with no restraint. And if they aren't, keep looking until you find that one that is.

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